Greetings, kinksters of all stripes!
Are you getting ready to engage in a high-octane session involving whips, chains, and the occasional feather? Or maybe something slightly more sedate – cuffs, blindfolds, and a little bit of role-play? Well, you’re in the right place! Before engaging in any type of kinky play, it’s important to know the do’s and don’ts of the situation. Here are 10 tips for safely engaging in kinky play.
Do…
1. Communicate and negotiate: Remember, communication is key when it comes to kink. Make sure you discuss fantasies, boundaries and any safety protocols you may want to put in place during the session.
2. Make a plan: Once you’ve both agreed on the terms of the session, set a plan in motion. Map out any equipment you might need, devise a way to keep track of time, and decide the ways in which you want to cut off the session.
3. Use safe words: Take the time to create at least one safe word or phrase that your partner can use if they need to pause, stop, or scale back the session.
4. Prim and proper: Make sure all equipment is in great working condition before using it. Check for frayed wires, breakage or any other safety concerns.
5. Lighten the mood: It’s easy to get too caught up in the intensity of the session, which can weird out even the most advanced partner. Try to keep the mood light with some small talk or an inappropriate joke.
Don’t…
6. Forget to avoid vulnerable areas: Your kink session should never involve any kind of genital or cardiac play – always target external areas of the body.
7. Neglect aftercare: Aftercare is just as important as the session itself. Take the time to cuddle, talk and relax afterwards to check in and make sure everyone is feeling alright.
8. Leave a mess behind: Don’t forget to put away all the equipment and clear away any messes.
9. Drink too much: While some alcohol can help loosen up and relax, don’t overdo it. Drink responsibly when partaking in kink.
10. Believe the myths: Don’t let all the stereotypes get to you. Kink can be safe, consensual and enjoyable, and no matter what genre of kink, you should always respect the interests of your partner.
Good luck safety out there, and enjoy your kinky sessions!How do different cultures depict femdom relationships in stories?Ah, femdom relationships - there is something deliciously taboo about them, yet it seems they keep cropping up in stories no matter the culture they come from. Why? Well, let's take a look at some of the different ways that femdom relationships have been written into stories over the generations.
In ancient Greece, femdom relationships seemed to have their roots in several different works of literature. In the Iliad, for instance, Aphrodite is portrayed as a goddess who has power and control over relationships, along with her teasing and flirtatious behavior. She appears as a demanding figure who demands faith and loyalty from her servants and, more importantly, from those who wish to win her favor. In general, the idea of woman being in charge of a relationship was viewed favourably by the ancient Greeks, with strong female characters often being viewed as both powerful and attractive.
In a more modern context, we can look to the notorious BDSM novel 50 Shades of Grey as a great example of how femdom relationships are written into stories. Written from the point of view of a young woman being dominated by a wealthy and powerful man, the story paints a picture of submission and domination that is as intricate as it is thrilling. From the very start, the careful power dynamics of the relationship are made clear, with the woman in control and calling the shots throughout the course of the book.
In a more religious sense, we can look to the Islamic culture where femdom relationships are portrayed in a much more restrained manner. In particular, the Quran talks about the importance of men being in charge of their relationships with their wives, setting out clear instructions as to how married couples should behave. Although the idea of women being in charge in a relationship may not be spoken of explicitly, it is clear in some of the stories that a woman can take control of a situation through careful negotiation and compromise.
Overall, it seems as if femdom relationships have a unique and sometimes complicated history in various cultures throughout the world. From the ancient Greeks who idolized powerful female characters, to the modern day romance of 50 Shades of Grey, to the more restrained manner in which such relationships are portrayed in Islamic literature, it's clear that femdom relationships have always been an intriguing and often scandalous facet of culture.
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